Odunayo Samo

Yes I offer Online sessions

Most couples need 6-8 weeks but we also work on couples timelines

I recommend starting at least 3-6 months before your wedding date. This gives you adequate time to work through all three pillars without rushing, practice new skills in real-time as you navigate wedding planning stress, and make any necessary adjustments to your relationship patterns before the big day. Starting early also allows the work to sink in deeply.

No, you don't need to share my faith tradition. While I can integrate biblical principles and Christian perspectives for couples who desire that, my three-pillar framework is grounded in attachment theory, psychology, and evidence-based relationship science that benefits all couples. I respect and honor diverse spiritual backgrounds and tailor our work to align with your values and beliefs.

Yes, I welcome interfaith and intercultural couples. In fact, the Booming We pillar (co-creating your marriage blueprint) is especially valuable for couples navigating different cultural or religious backgrounds. We'll address how to honor both traditions, manage family expectations, raise children with respect for both heritages, and create a unique marriage culture that reflects both of you. These conversations are essential and deserve dedicated attention

My practice serves heterosexual couples within a traditional marriage framework. I want to be transparent about this so all couples can find the counselor who best fits their needs.

I primarily work with couple together, but meet each partner separately when needed.

Confidentiality is a cornerstone of our work together. Everything discussed in sessions is kept confidential, with standard legal exceptions (imminent harm, abuse, or court orders).

I require 48 hours notice for cancellations or rescheduling. Cancellations made with less notice will be charged the full session fee, as that time was reserved specifically for your couple. I understand emergencies happen, and we can discuss those on a case-by-case basis.

Absolutely. Assessments are integrated throughout the three pillars to help us understand your individual attachment patterns, relationship dynamics, communication styles, and potential areas of conflict. These evidence-based tools provide a foundation for our work and help pinpoint exactly where to focus our time together. You'll gain concrete insights that inform the personalized therapy processing sessions.

In the first session, we introduce the three-pillar framework, and establish confidentiality agreements. Each couple shares briefly about your relationship and goals for counseling. We begin the Blossoming You pillar with an introduction to individual healing work, attachment styles, and start initial assessments.